The Five B’s Brock Turner Should Have Been Taught…

In a Stanford land, not to far from here, There was a frat party with young kids, music and beer. A young man, Brock Turner, made the ultimate choice, And it was he that chose to try and silence a voice. Little did he know, the survivor he got ahold, Was more than a cardigan, was more than the standard mold. She was brave and courageous, the bravest of them all, She chose to stand and to dare not fall. But, then we read the letter – the letter from his dad, And we all began to realize just how the privileged swimmer got to be bad. There is a saying,… Continue Reading

Sleepovers – 9 Steps Parents Must Take

  Sleepovers or no sleepovers – that is the question! Here are 9 steps if we choose to allow them: 1. Educate ourselves about child sexual abuse and what that looks like. For example, one out of ten children will be sexually abused by 18 years of age and 90% of the children who are abused are abused by someone they know. 2. Educate our children about “The Five B’s”: • Body Parts: children must be able to verbally use the correct anatomical names for Body Parts (yes, this includes vagina and penis) • Boundaries: children must be able to understand their physical Boundaries and that no one is allowed… Continue Reading

Should We Allow Sleepovers?

Jennifer Hillman is a mother of two, licensed speech-language pathologist, producer of the award-winning educational DVD, “The Five B’s”, and an active advocate and speaker for sexual abuse prevention education in the home, churches, and in schools. For more information on this topic and Bailey Bee Believes® award-winning educational DVD on empowering children about body safety to prevent sexual abuse, go to


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"This informative DVD empowers our children and teaches valuable life lessons; Bailey Bee makes it fun.

Jennifer’s goal to raise awareness of sexual abuse for families with small children is right on target."


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